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Eight Crazy Weeks…and Jesus pt 1

 

Eight crazy weeks and Jesus…

 One of the most effective events we incorporate into our yearly planning is based on an early 80’s Outreach program called “L.I.F.E.” by Bill Wilson and ………… Hold on…don’t tune me out yet, hang with me. I love change…in fact, I like change too much. Every few months I go through a fit of restlessness, I have to fight the urge to put my home up for sale and move. We moved a lot when I was a kid, either we had to pay the rent or move. I was just very thankful that mom would take me with her when we moved. I usually end up re-arranging my office to placate the urge to change venues. It works well for me and keeps my wife and kids happy. So think of this as “L.I.F.E.” Re-Mixed.

So when I reference the model of “L.I.F.E.”, I reference it loosely. If you are lucky enough to have a vintage copy of the handbook for it, complete with 120+ overhead transparencies, then great! Otherwise, you will have to take my word for it. One of the codes of creativity is forgetting who you stole the idea from. I am paying homage to Bill and the very detailed 300 page handbook for reaching out and connecting the Gospel with students in the early 80’s…and I do it with the utmost respect for him and his ministries. I have found that it is just as effective, if not more so now in current ministry situations. So with that said, here we go.

“L.I.F.E.” stands for “Life Is For Everyone.” True enough statement. I was introduced to it in the early ‘90s while hanging out with my mentor Jack McCarty. He is still in student ministry and has had untold influence in a crazy number of students and college interns. That influence is continuing each time I see a student give their life to Christ. Hopefully, you will see many lives changed and your student ministry grow in numbers and spiritual depth.

Continued in pt 2. :)

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Good Bye 2009…Hello 2010

I will turn 37 in a few days…some would see that as a bummer.  Not me.  I have had a wonderful life.  No regrets…well, i guess there is one thing that still haunts me.  The state quarterfinal game versus ACH back in 1990 still bums me out a little bit, but that is another story.  Other than that, God has seen me through a lot of stuff.  Stuff that has allowed me to become a better person and an even better husband, father, and Youth Pastor.  Here in Stuttgart, we have seen some great things happen in 2009.  Many lives come to know Christ, new friendships made with Youth Pastors and Youth workers all over the place, my son drop his first cuss word, and many other show stopping moments that I am fondly looking back on.  I hope you and your ministry have seen some highs as well.  The start of this blog/site has been a high point for me for sure.  I have revitalized a friendship with a former student and learned much about social networking and the infinite possibilities that the web holds for doing great things for the kingdom.

We have had visitors to this site from 22 different countries: USA, Canada, Germany, UK, Austrailia, Russia, Philippines, Israel, Mexico, Guatemala, Bangladesh, Spain, Austria, Denmark, India, Egypt, Finland, United Arab Emirates, Brazil, Slovakia, New Zealand, and Belgium.  The only states that have not chimed in here have been from N.Dakota, Vermont, New Hampshire, and Maine…I guess I don’t have any friends up there yet.  What a humbling thing to be a part of.  The folks down in New Zealand have averaged over 14 minutes on the site…crazy…and that is only with limited content so far.

We have much planned for the site in the coming months for sure. 

  • I am currently working with my network of friends to get them to give me one or two of their “best” messages so that we can develope a database for Youth Pastors and Youth Workers to download.  Not so much to “re-teach”…but to help those out there that are just starting out to see how veterans do it.  There is no real “standard” for developing a message or putting together powerpoint, but to see how others do it is real handy.  Each of us has strengths in our ministries and to be able to share the wealth is important.  Remember that. 
  • Linking to other blogs, videos, and websites is a great way to connect all of us that are in it for the long haul.
  • Expanding the Speakers and Bands area.  This is a part of my blog that has started much discussion and there is obviously a need to find reliable, God honoring, personalities to headline events from the largest to the smallest venue.  This is looking like it will expand to its own website with many people contributing to the lineup.  Good stuff.
  • Outreach events that work well for us is a top priority for me in the new year.  I am trying to get some of our events, both weekly and annually, down on paper to share with you.  I get many questions in this area because we have seen some dramatic success, it is only to bring glory to God, because I sure don’t know what I am doing yet.
  • Encouragement for the bi-vocational or volunteer Youth Pastor/Worker.  What ever we can do to help the small church or individual just trying to get something going.  That is where my heart is.  Just in our denomination there are 1400+ churches in Arkansas.  11o0 of those have 100 or less on Sunday Morning…so you do the math.  Not a ton of churches that can support full-time Youth Pastors.  When you throw in all the other Christian denominations in our state alone…we have a ton of students to be reached for Christ.
  • Whatever we can do to encourage other Youth Pastors to start blogging, contributing, or just connecting with other Youth Pastors in their area is a win-win situation.  So join the fun.  Connect with me on facebook or send me an email and share your ideas or some of the good things you have seen out there…so we can get the word out!
  • Most of all, I would love to pray for you and your ministry.  I have mentors praying for me and it helps me to know that.  Especially when I want to hang my head and wonder why I am even in this thing to begin with.  Have a Happy New Year.
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Youth Room Decor 2

I had the chance to stop in and take a look at a few more youth rooms here in the state of Arkansas.  Eagle Heights Baptist Church in Harrison, AR and First Baptist Church of Benton, AR.  I snappeStuttgart Cafe 1d a few pics and you can get some ideas from the way they have chosen to decorate.  You can click on any of the thumbnails and then scroll through the pics.  If you have any ideas on anything you see here or would like to more detail about it…then please ask.  Taking a good idea and making it better is always a great thing to do for your ministry.

Highlights.

  • Notice the use of carpet on the walls in EHBC and then using velcro to attach posters and pics.
  • FBCB used wood to make their “upper room” sign but painted it to look rusty.
  • Blank canvas with simple painted words from scripture on them.  They looked great.
  • Artistic use of canvas and plain white sheets in both places to do artwork and pictures of Jesus.
  • Paint is cheap and adds a lot to a space.
  • Linoleum black and white squares on counter tops in EHBC.
  • Great use of cheap galvenized steel to add texture, cover up windows and decorate. Love this and we use it in our building too.
  • No PDA sign was great.  It was a no parking sign with No PDA added as a sticker.
  • Have fun be creative.

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Highlight Videos

Weekly highlight videos I put together during our L.I.F.E. Emphasis during ’09.  Always a crowd pleaser for students to see themselves on the bigscreen!  Used Adobe Premiere for editing, shot on a Sony Mini-DV video camera.

Below you will see a few more examples of how to use video in your ministry.  I repeat…everyone looks cool in slow motion.

The following video was literally shot in about a half-hour at a Student Leader (STUlea) pool party when we thought of a way to promote the new website for Flipside 517…and yes, I know it says it is under construction, we are reworking it right now and it will be up soon lookin’ sweet.

Room Invasion TRoberts…example of trying to get footage from a room with minimal props/material around.  Obviously these won’t be near as funny without knowing the particular student involved, but we do what we can.  I hope this gets some creative juices flowing in your ministry.

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Room Invasion Videos

What is it?  Not really sure…these type of things have been going on since the technology of capturing home movies has trickled down into the hands of people that work with students.  I am sure if someone looked hard enough, there would be some sort of room invasion, student highlight, “me and my locker”, or something of that nature on reel-to-reel 8mm somewhere.  That would be fun to see.  So, from shoulder cannon VHS to the latest HD Digital, we can assume there are youth pastors that use this technology to highlight students and improve our relationships with students all over the world.  Keep those cameras rollin’ and here is our little take on subject of shining the spotlight on students.

I have done different variations of this for many years, but I think we have found the right mixture of fun and shenanigans to share with you as an idea that can really go places in your ministry.  It is easy and students love it.  The mission we have is to highlight a student’s room, ransack it, and clean it up without getting caught.  Obviously you want to get the parents involved otherwise…or you will have to explain to your Pastor and church how you were arrested and wonder if the bail money could possibly come out of your travel expense…or even better, jail ministry mission trip!

I begin with a mass sign up…students can sign up to have their room “invaded”, but this is not a guarantee that their room will be hit.  We use “Room Invasions” as a special treat in our ministry and it is not a scheduled event.  This helps you as well since there really is no “deadline” to have it cut and ready for primetime.  So with a base list of students to choose from, we work with the parents and get permission from them. Get the details on the “subject’s” room and even let them participate if they wish.  If it is a female student, you specifically want to know from the parent which “areas” of the room are off-limits.  These are articles of clothing that could embarrass both you and the student and with the goal of fun…not abuse…you stay away from those areas.  No worries, because most students have plenty of material in the room to fill a 5 minute video.

Here are some things to think about:

  • Highlight things that make the student unique. Hobbies, sports, awards, collections, i.e. stacks of broken skateboards
  • Take tons of footage, sure there will be dull moments or things that are not remotely funny…but those will never see the light of day and you don’t want to get to editing and not have enough footage.
  • Remember-everyone and everything looks cool in slow motion.
  • Bring props…the right goofy CD or “mom’s” prom dress in the closet can make for good fun and many laughs…but make sure you know your student and that they can take it.
  • All else fails…embarrass yourself.  Fall down, put on the clothes, taste the make-up, etc.
  • Pick great music to drive the video forward.  A great soundtrack can make ok-funny clips hilarious.  i.e. I once found a Kenny G CD on the floor…enough said.
  • Trash the room, but don’t break anything…explaining a broken tiara that is treasured to that student is not where I want to be.
  • Then clean everything up.  We have done tons of these videos and still haven’t been caught.  I even leave hints that I was there.  Money missing, names written on boards, hats left behind, etc.  Still, no one has come up to me before we roll that beautiful bean footage on Wednesday and asked, “Hey, have you been in my room?”
  • Thank the parents…burn them copies to keep.  It is a great tool to get to know the parents of the students and thanks them for letting their most treasured possession hang out with you.
  • Put your own spin on it…there are no real rules saying it has to look one way or another.  Have fun with it.

These are just a few ideas…but go crazy…you will find a niche that fits your personality, use college students if you are too old or just not funny.  It is ok and we won’t tell anyone.  There is a reason that MTV/VH1 latched onto the idea as well, however, I think a youth pastor invented it first.  But it wasn’t me.  Have fun.

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“Butterfly Circus” by Joshua Weigel

See the movie here-> The Doorpost Film Project

I stumbled onto this short movie while doing some research on the cast of “To Save a Life.”  The youth pastor in the movie is played by a Joshua Weigel.  Joshua is a writer/director as well as an actor, he and his wife wrote and directed this movie and it is fantastic. joshuaweigel

The movie is about hope and I got the resounding message of how God can take the broken and do great things.  Our purpose is often much greater than what we envision for our own lives.  It is an inspiring depiction of worth and love…seeing true value in the individual and finding purpose.  Some will gather or may think that “Will’s” purpose is to eventually dive into water, but it is much more than that.  See for yourself.  I can’t wait till the DVD is available to purchase and show it to my students.

Joshua posted that the DVD is in the works and will be available soon.

butterfly circusYou can watch the film below, or at The Doorpost Film Project

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New Movie “To Save a Life”

To Save a Life” After a childhood friend’s death, Jake Taylor, an all-star athlete must change his life – and sacrifice his dreams to save the lives of others.

FYI: Depression strikes about one out of eight teenagers www.teensuicide.us , about 1.5 million children experience the divorce of their parents each year, 14%-39% of teens have had at least one incident of deliberate self-injury, suicide is the third leading cause of death among 10-19 year olds

3 Big Reasons to join:

  1. Teens will take ownership…teens are stepping up to power a nationwide grassroots movement bigger than any single youth outreach event before.
  2. Relationships will be built…It’s a movie teens can invite their friends to and be confident that it’s entertaining and authentic.  The can go deeper and dialogue with friends about what matters most in life.
  3. Lives will be changed…on opening weekend, thousands of student groups will gather in theaters with friends and leaders to see “To Save a Life.”  Many teens will experience hope and learn that their lives can count. www.tosavealifeleaders.com

I had the privilege to attend a pre-screening of the movie “To Save A Life” as a part of the Arkansas Student Pastor Network event a few weeks ago.

I was stunned at how they were able to capture high school life with such reality.  It wasn’t candy coated, but it wasn’t over blown either…there was part of me that wasn’t sure how they were going to tackle such numerous plot lines in under two hours…but they did a great job.  I will definitely be promoting it with my students and church.  We have already started the process to see if we can land it locally in the theater.  We are in a smaller community so we might have to bus a bunch of our students and parents over to Little Rock, AR to see it.

There may be some of you that may be hesitant with the PG-13 rating due to some of the themes running throughout the movie, but I hope that it won’t keep you from using this movie for the many teachable moments that are contained within it.  A part that hit me hard was the opportunity that was missed when one of the characters was not “welcomed” as he walked into a youth group meeting…wow, very convicting.  I wondered how many students have done the same thing in our area.  Discussing the movie with my wife she said something to me that really helped put it into perspective.  She said, “High School life is not PG-13…it is R-rated and if we don’t use every tool we can to reach the younger generation…then shame on us.”  Well put.

So I would encourage you to check it out and see for yourself if it could be a tool that you could use locally.  I pray that my students are shaken to their core…with positive results.

Great Resources are available for this film: Check them out.

www.tosavealifeleaders.com , www.tosavealifemovie.com

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Student Leadership pt 3

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The third part of Student Leadership is Discipleship.  It can be argued that there are many more facets to Student Leadership than just the three that I have written about and that is true.  But most of those issues are ones that I call “teaching moments” in the life of the relationship that I call Student Leadership.  So assuming that you have students with the will to lead and they now have a “job” in your ministry, the next phase of development would be considered Discipleship.

I take each student that is involved with our ministry (STUlea) and try to develop a tailored path that depends a whole bunch on them and their decisions.  They must be willing to enter into the relationship with open eyes and a willing heart.  A lot can happen over the span of four or five years of adolescence and our leadership is committed to be there with them through every phase.  Before, I only allowed older, committed students to pursue this phase…then I realized that a 7th grade student was just as willing and capable to commit and serve as older students.  This has become a joyful and passionate part of my ministry to students…while also challenging me to deeper levels of my faith, testing my patience as a leader, and increasing the desire to see students become more like Christ.

Some of the things that is common across the board with these students are as follows:

  • Commitment to growing in the Word.  I provide all I can for them to continue to be challenged in reading scripture.  Quiet Time booklets and other reading materials that are age/growth appropriate.  A “Personal Survival Guide” that has been written by a friend of mine, Eric Ball is the starting point.  The Moving Towards Maturity Set from Reach Out Youth Solutions is top notch and I love it.
  • Continual input and pointed conversations with the student to make sure and keep up with their walk.  I wish I could put this into words, but I am sure you get the feel of what I am talking about.  This includes everything from how their grades are doing in school, how their relationship with their parents is going, to their peer relationships and how that affects their daily walk.  I find this to be the most effective way to pick up on areas to work on, both in their lives and mine.
  • Specifically designed events for the Student Leaders to build relationships among themselves and with our Adult Leadership.  Cookouts, Bonfires, Florida Trips, small group events, and retreats to dig deeper and challenge them further.

I am a believer in the Jesus Focused Youth Ministry strategy and have been involved with it for several years.  There are numerous resources and tons of reliable accountability with these guys that help me be a better Youth Pastor/leader and keep from falling into the event-to-event style ministry that so often leads to burn out.  If you haven’t checked it out…please do so prayerfully and I think you will find a strategy that helps Youth Pastors become more effective in their calling and passionate about the students we minister to.

I will be adding and refining this as it fleshes itself out on paper in the near future…If you have any questions and/or comments, please feel free and let me know.

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Creative Way to Promote and Communicate What You Are Doing

Our friends over at H2O with Beech Street First Baptist Church-Texarkana (Sean Mills, Youth Pastor) use a creative way to communicate what is up with the Students.  We all know that the easiest way not to have mis-understandings is to communicate effectively, so anyway that you can do this…letters, email, facebook, pidgeon, etc…is better than leaving people guessing.  Something like this is effective publicity for your student ministry and it just takes a little time.  Most everyone has a video camera capable of shooting quick promos and/or reports for their ministry.  Whether you use Windows Movie Maker, iMovie, Pinnacle, Avid, or Adobe…you can make simple quick vids that help you accomplish your mission and keep people informed.

Think of it this way…most people like to know the “who, what, when, where, and how” in any given situation so they can make informed decisions.  That decision maybe whether or not they are a fan of your active ministry and that directly effects if they will speak positively or negatively about the work you do or even the work of the church as a whole.  My prayer is you recieve much of the positive.  Have fun and keep filming!

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What does Wednesday Night look like here?

Here is a good run down of an average Wednesday Evening service at “Flipside 517″. FS Black We are located in Stuttgart, AR (check out the street view to see our building), which is known as the “Rice and Duck Capital of the World”. You can take a look at the Ministry at a Glance to see the size of schools and community that we are actively working in.  We average 120+ students during our mid-week service and have 400+ active students that we see during any given time of the year (including other outreach events and programs).  Keep in mind, “Flipside 517″ is specifically designed as a weekly outreach and topics/series are designed for that atmosphere, we strive to provide a safe environment where students want to invite their friends.  With that said, here is a rundown of what a typical Wednesday night looks like.

4:30pm-5:30pm: Student Leaders and the fiveoneseven band arrive for practice and set up.  Our student leaders are responsible for setup while the band runs through the set for the evening. 

  • Set up includes:
  • Stocking the soda machine with soda & water
  • Chairs (this is my least favorite part of the set up process and the STUleas do a great service for us each week)
  • The smaller “teaching” stage that I use (including a 1960′s Science Lab Stool that I have used for 10 years…jus’sayin)
  • Cafe’ setup (including making sure the Cafe’ register has adequate change)
  • Sign-in stand (this includes complete list of students with barcodes, hands are stamped as the enter the building)
  • Game Room Set up: Video Game Systems & making sure Pool Tables and Foosball tables have the proper equipment, Security Personnelfiveoneseven band stage Chairs are in the right spots, lights on, AC/Heat, and anything else needed to get this area ready to go for the night.
  • Bathrooms are stocked
  • Basketball Goals set up (Four basketballs with AIR in them are highly recommended)
  • AC/Heat
  • Sound Check/Easy Worship , IPods in place

Cafe' 15:30-6:00pm- Adult Leaders Arrive and in place (usually 15+ or so scheduled for each Flipside 517)

6:00pm- Doors Open/Student Check-In, IPod Music up and running, Stage Lights, Videos Running as needed (Interlinc Video Compilations usually). New students fill out N-Fo cards, teamed with a student (usually the student that invited them) to get a tour, and are given free soda or candy from the Cafe’.  Parents are welcome to stay for our service so we usually have quite a few adults and church members hanging around for this or to sit in during the music part of worship…it is just that good ;)

6:00pm-6:50pm- Free Time for students/Fellowship. Game Room, Cafe’, outside area are open (however all students are brought in from outside @ 6:30pm, this is the point that if a student leaves the premises they cannot return) Adults are actively patrolling both inside and outside facility

6:40pm-begin 10 minute countdown.  The band and support staff meet for prayer together.  During this time the house lights are brought down and basketballs are put away as students begin to find their seats.  At t-minus 2 minutes music is turned up and most students have found their seats.

6:50pm-Welcome and Prayer. 5-7 minutes max.  Pizza order is phoned in for those that will be hanging out after Flipside 517 at pizza place next door.

6:55-7pm- Worship Set Begins.  Students are invited “down front” to engage with the fiveoneseven band.

7:20pm-8pm- Teaching time. (This may include a game, illustration event, Room Invasion Video, etc. prior to me speaking)CJones Facecake

8pm- Final Announcements: Upcoming Events, sign ups, etc.

8:05pm-Chairs are stacked up and free time.  Occasionally large scale games are begun at this time until doors close

8:30pm- Students are picked up/Church Van takes students home/Music is off and clean up is in full effect.  Students also start moving toward pizza place during this time.  For $5 they can eat pizza and wait for parents to pick them up there.  I and other adults attend this as well. 

9:00pm-After students are all headed home, I make a final check of the building and lock up (several adults are capable of doing this) and I head to the office to input student attendance and new student emails/letters/info into Youth Assistant.

9:00-1am- I usually get a ton of work done in the office (with no one around it tends to be pretty quiet…except for scary church building noises that have led-more than once- to me walking around the church with a big Excalibur sword checking it out…no foolin’, so if you see me on Fox News sometime because I have run a Deacon through with my sword…you will know it is because they scared me late at night.)  It is a hectic schedule on Wednesdays, but worth every bit of the work when we see student’s lives being impacted for Christ.  Blessings, hope this helps. Dustin